Firstly, sorry that this is really long.
I'm a 14 year old girl, and I love my school. I'm usually shy and nice to others and I haven't made any enemies at all so far, and last night I had this dream where I was completely different.
In this dream I was at school and I was with a friend, though I didn't see who it was, but I did see that the playground was wet, as if it had just finished raining.
Then some random blonde girl came along and hugged my friend, saying hi to her, and then she turned to me, gave me an irritated look and said something like "And I thought *I* was ugly, but *this*."
That must have made me angry, because I said something like "Listen here, b'tch! I know I'm ugly, so you don't have to f'cking tell me."
The blonde girl gave me that same look again, and then apparently I did something really weird; I started throwing random punches and kicks, yelling "hii-jah! hii-jah!" although I didn't hit this girl at all, because all the punches and kicks were right in front of her, and she was looking at me like I was insane.
At that moment, a 40-something year old teacher with blondish-grey hair, glasses and a long skirt appeared next to me and said "you, young lady, come with me to the headteacher's office. We do not tolerate this kind of thing at our school." or something like that, while at the same time she was dragging me across the playground by the sleeve of my blazer.
As she was dragging me across the playground I tried to explain: "No but- we were just having a play fight!" That was a complete and utter lie, because a: I didn't know this person and b: it was not a play fight. This teacher still didn't change her mind anyway.
Then the dream sort of skipped to later, when the playground was still wet, and me and a bunch of friends (again, I didn't see who they were because I couldn't see their faces) were searching all over the place trying to find this girl so that I could beat her up. The dream ended there.
It was very strange, because I would never go after someone just to beat them up. If someone insults me in real life I would usually just ignore them. And I would NEVER get in trouble with the head for "assaulting" another person. So, what does this dream mean? Am I going to get in a fight or something?
Your dream could mean a lot of different things. It doesn't necessarily mean that you'll get into a fight though. It could be that you are 14 and you're at that age where a lot of girls come out of their "shell" and like you said in you're dream you were someone completely different. You could be worried about becoming someone you don't want to be. It could also mean because some random girl hugged your friend and acted so coldly towards you, it could be that you feel competitive towards friendships, or that you're worried about having to become competitive over friendships. especially because the aggression between you and the blonde girl was so intense and detailed. You obviously don't want to hurt anyone, seeing as how even though you started swinging fists, not once did you touch the girl. Personally I think this dream represents some of the emotional struggles you may be worried about having to face. I remember when I was 14 I turned into someone I never thought I would ever become, and I became a monster. I didn't realize I had changed so drastically until a few years later I gave myself a wake up call. So honestly in my opinion I think your dream is just a warning, of who not to become. As an example. have you ever seen the movie Mean Girls? Lindsay Lohan plays Katy, and she becomes someone she never imagined possible. someone totally different than she was. just like you in your dream. I'm not saying thats going to happen to you, just be aware of the pressures that surround you and don't give into them. :) Hope I helped and good luck!
It probably just means that, since you're so shy, you can't really stick up for yourself. I think your dream is telling you that if someone says something insulting to you, don't just take it. Do what it takes to get them to back off, you know? And you're not ugly, okay, don't let anyone ever tell you that. We're all beautiful on the inside to the outside - it doesn't matter if you don't look like a model, who wants to anyway?
If someone says something mean and nasty to you, just turn around and clock them in the face - it may land you in trouble, but who cares? Everyone will know not to mess with you, or they're gonna end up hurting.